每个人都有缺点和缺陷，而且别人比你自己看得还要清楚，越掩饰则越令人注目．讳莫如深的结果只会加剧别人的好奇和议论，更可能使你与周围的人产生隔阂．倒不如痛痛快快、干干脆脆的自动“曝光”，嘲笑自己和被别人嘲笑效果是完全不同的．自嘲能够很好地体现一个人豁达的心胸? Everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings, and others are more aware than you see, the more disguise you get. The secretive results will only exacerbate the curiosity and controversy of others, more likely to create a barrier between you and the people around you. Rather than being happy, dry crisp automatic “exposure”, ridiculed himself and others laughed at the effect is completely different. Self-deprecating can well reflect a person’s open-minded mind?