对于成年人来说,似乎自己最了解自己;但也有可能自己不了解自己,将自己的能力估计过高或过低。人在走上坡路时,往往把自己估计过高,似乎一切所求的东西都能唾手可得。这样的人往往把运气和机遇也看做自己能力的一部分而喜不自胜。人在失意时,又往往把自己估计过低,把困难和不利条件统统看做是自己的无能。 It seems to adults that they know themselves best; but they themselves may not know themselves and overestimate their own abilities. When going uphill, people tend to over-estimate themselves and it seems that everything they ask for can be readily available. Such people tend to be luck and opportunity as part of their ability and complacent. When people are frustrated, they often underestimate themselves and regard all difficulties and disadvantages as their own incompetence.