《长恨歌》中的主人公王琦瑶美丽聪慧,端庄典雅,是吸纳了黄埔精华的上海女儿。她先后和四个男人有过情感的纠葛,但最终还是孑然一身,无缘婚姻,是王琦瑶悲剧人生的底色。她和康明逊的感情纠葛可谓悱恻缠绵,贯穿了王琦瑶的一生,本文把两人交往的三个片段截取出来,从他们相识、相知、相恋的过程看康明逊及其家人对王琦瑶的态度,从语言的指向性来解密这段露水情缘的始末,并力图从两人所处阶层的不同,探求爱情与婚姻的现实性。. Wang Qi Yao, the protagonist of “Everlasting Sorrow”, is a beautiful and dignified man, dignified and elegant, and is the daughter of Shanghai who absorbed the essence of Huangpu. She has had emotional entanglements with four men, but in the end she was alone and missed marriage. It is the background of Wang Qiyao’s tragedy. The emotional entanglements between her and Kang Mingxun can be described as lingering throughout the life of Wang Qiyao. This article intercepts the three fragments of the two contacts, and from the process of their acquaintance, mutual understanding and fell in love, the attitude of Kang Mingxun and his family to Wang Qi Yao, From the point of view of language to decrypt the whole story of dew and try to explore the reality of love and marriage from the differences of the two classes. .