“小不忍则乱大谋”，中国儒家文化崇尚以和为贵，以忍当先。于是，“忍一气风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”自然成了众多人认可的座右铭。忍，在字典中解释为“控制感情不发作”。通常，忍对于解决夫妻矛盾、化解邻里纠纷很有帮助，因为这一忍缓解了双方的对立，为最终解决矛... “Little can not be reckless with big plans”, Chinese Confucian culture advocates peace as harmony, and takes the lead. As a result, “endure calmness, step back to the brighter future” has naturally become the motto accepted by many people. Forbearance, explained in the dictionary as “control of emotional seizures.” Generally, tolerance is helpful in resolving conflicts between husband and wife and resolving disputes in the neighborhood, because it relieves the opposition between the two parties and finally resolves the spear ...