在现代家庭教育中,常听到一些年轻的妈妈有些自豪和夸耀地说,我儿子从小就亲我,对他爸爸敬而远之。孩子的恋母情绪受到母亲有意识的引导后,加剧了小家庭亲情关系向母亲倾斜的趋势。可悲的是,这种趋势还每每被那些目光短浅的母亲们所津津乐道。这实质上是当前家庭教育潜伏着的危机。 In modern family education, it is often heard that some young mothers are somewhat proud and boastful that my son, who was a child, loved me and kept her father at arm’s length. Children’s Oedipus mood by the mother’s conscious guidance, exacerbating the trend of family relations to the mother tilted toward the mother. Sadly, this trend is often remembered by those short-sighted mothers. This is essentially a crisis lurking in current family education.