问:我对孩子说话,他都如同没有听到一样。不管你是叮嘱、吩咐还是劝阻,他一概置若罔闻。对孩子这种“不长耳朵”的表现,我厌烦极了,却没有良策。王常香(河南商城)答:孩子不将家长的话当回事,一定是有原因的。一般来说,有以下三种原因:一、孩子当时正在玩游戏或正专注地做着什么事;二、家长平时太唆,孩子对家长的唠叨感到厌烦; Q: I talk to my children, he did not hear the same. Whether you are told, commanded or discouraged, he turned a deaf ear. I’m tired of having such a “no longer ears” child, but I have not got any good idea. Wang Changxiang (Henan Mall) A: The children do not take the parents seriously, there must be a reason. In general, there are three reasons: First, the child was playing the game or is doing what is focused; Second, the parents usually too abetting children annoyed parents nagging;