一个家庭也如同一个生命,有自己的发展周期。不同阶段有不同的发展任务,家庭如果不能及时调整自身结构以适应变化,就容易出现各种家庭问题。家庭生活的最初阶段是两个单身青年人,这时他们要把自己和原有的家庭区分开来,建立工作、经济方面的独立自我,同时建立亲密的同伴关系。当他们走进婚姻后,他们就组成了新的家庭系统,要为新系统负责任,需要重新调整与扩展家庭和朋友的关系,使配偶参与其中。 A family is like a life, have their own development cycle. Different stages of development have different tasks, if families can not adjust their own structure to adapt to change in time, it is prone to a variety of family problems. The initial stages of family life were two single young people, who at the time wanted to separate themselves from the original family, establish work, economic independence, and establish close fellowship. When they enter marriage, they form a new family system that is responsible for the new system and needs to be readjusted to extend their relationships with family and friends to engage their spouses.