公司濒临倒闭,一时间工作无着落,又赶上买了车,万般无奈中,还是向父母伸出了手。一直以独立自居的我也走上啃老的行列,突然理解了啃老族的难处。在父辈的成长史中,人口流动还不普遍,贫富差距也不悬殊,人只要进了工厂就能干一辈子。诱惑不多,人的欲望就不强,也没有投资观念,结婚既意味着青春的结束,又意味着一种稳固不变生活模式的开始。到了我们结婚生子时,这种“平稳”被打破了。无论是婚 The company is on the verge of bankruptcy, a time of work without landing, and catch up with the car bought, desperation, or extend their hand to their parents. I have always walked independently on the basis of eating the old, suddenly understand the difficulties of eating the old. In the history of the father’s growth, the flow of people is not yet universal, and the disparity between the rich and the poor is not disproportionate. People can do their best if they enter the factory. Not much temptation, people’s desire is not strong, there is no investment concept, marriage means not only the end of youth, but also means the beginning of a steady mode of life. By the time we get married, this “smoothness” is broken. Whether it is marriage