引子笔者从事中学班主任工作已有十多年了,经常听学生家长谈起教育孩子的苦恼,希望老师对自己的孩子严加管教。我也仔细地探讨过这个问题,其实,父母是孩子的第一任老师,家庭教育对孩子的影响远远大于学校教育。那么,为人父母到底应该怎样教育自己的孩子呢?有没有一种让所有孩子像追蝴 Primer I have been working as a middle school teacher for more than ten years, and often listen to the parents talk about the distress of children, I hope the teacher strict discipline of their children. I have also carefully explored this issue. In fact, parents are the children’s first teachers. Family education has far more impact on children than school education. So, how should parents educate their children in the end? Is there any way to let all the children like chasing the butterfly