专家指出,不管陷于多么困难的婚姻境况,只要两人有挽救它的主观愿望,就一定能使之得到改善。 当今,离婚现象愈加普遍,而人们开始意识到离婚也并非一剂灵丹妙药。许多曾经认为是自己的前任配偶导致两人分手的人,现在发现,与新配偶之间相同的问题依然存在。哈佛·马克曼在《为你的婚姻而战》一书中指 Experts point out that no matter how difficult the marriage is, the two will surely make improvements as long as they have the subjective desire to save it. Nowadays, the phenomenon of divorce is more common, and people are beginning to realize that divorce is not a panacea. Many who used to think their own former spouse led to the breakup of the two now find that the same problems remain with the new spouse. Harvard Markman refers to “fighting for your marriage.”