编辑同志: 你们好!我是一个初中女孩的母亲,急于向你们请教一个问题。前几天,我无意中在我女儿的衣服口袋里发现了她准备给一个同学的回条。原来女儿早谈了!怪不得前不久的考试,她的成绩不如以前了。我又急又怕,我急于解救我的女儿,因为她还小,她还没有那么多辨别是非的能力。但是,我不知道该怎样劝说她,万一说错了,一怕伤了她的自尊心,二怕她有逆反心理,反而更耽误学习。我该怎么办?无奈之下,我想到了《家长》。我想通过贵刊请专家帮我把女儿从这件事情中解救出来。我先在这里谢谢了! 一位《家长》的忠实读者 Editor’s Comrade: How are you! I am the mother of a junior high school girl, anxious to ask you a question. A few days ago, I accidentally found in her daughters clothes pocket she is prepared to give a student reply. The original daughter talked early! No wonder the test not long ago, she’s not as good as before. I was in a hurry and scared, and I was eager to save my daughter because she was still young, and she did not have so much ability to tell right from wrong. However, I do not know how to persuade her, in case something wrong, afraid of hurting her self-esteem, fear of her second fear, but more delay learning. What should I do? In desperation, I think of “parents.” I would like to ask experts through your magazine to help me save my daughter from this incident. I first thank here! A “parent” loyal readers