与一朋友吃饭,恰好父亲来看我,便接来一起吃。父亲寡言,饭间一直静静地听我们聊天。回家的路上,父亲说:“你这个朋友,不可深交。”我愕然,这个朋友是因生意认识的,合作过几次,印象还不错。父亲说:“从吃相看,基本可以估摸出他是个怎样的人。他夹菜有个习惯性动作,总是用筷子把盘子底部的菜翻上来,划拉几下,才夹起菜,对喜欢吃的菜,更是反反复复地翻炒,就好比把筷子当成锅铲,把一盘菜在盘子里重新炒了一次。”我不以为然:“每个人习惯不同,有的人喜欢 Eat with a friend, just my father came to see me, then pick it up. My father’s reticent, quietly listening to us during the meal chat. On my way home, my father said: ”Your friend can not be deeply rooted.“ ”I was stunned that this friend was acquainted with business and had cooperated several times. My impression was not bad. My father said: “From the eating phase, the basic can estimate what kind of person he is .He has a habit of cutting dishes, always use the chopsticks to the bottom of the plate dish up, draw a few times, just pick up the dishes, right Like to eat the food, it is repeatedly stir fry, like the chopstick as a spatula, a plate dish in the fry again. ”I do not agree: " Everyone used to different, some people like