古人云:“躬自厚而薄责于人,则远怨矣。”世上矛盾纷争,十有八九源于只知一味指责对方,而不能反观、审视自身。古代有个叫王吉的人,品行端正。他家与东邻一墙之隔,东邻家种有一棵枣树,枝蔓自然伸到了王吉家的院内,值秋末时树上果实累累。 The ancients said: “The people who blame the thick and thin, are far from complaining.” "Contradictions and conflicts in the world, in all likelihood, only know blame each other, but not the other way, look at themselves. There is a man named Wang Ji in ancient times, good character. His home and east of the wall separated by a family tree east of a jujube tree branches naturally spread to Wang Ji’s yard, the value of the end of the tree when the fruit is plentiful.