读者朋友,首先让我们大家一起来分享一个真实的故事: 一对住在农村的老夫妻非常恩爱。家里的一些力气活都是丈夫抢着干,而妻子也从来不让丈夫插手做饭这类的事。妻子突然病故之后丈夫也自杀了。说起老人自杀的原因,村里的人说由于老人从来没有做过饭,妻子去世之后老人的生活无法自理,他的生活一团糟。有时好心人会帮他做顿饭,但是这终究不是长久的办法。老人在无法解脱对妻子的思念与生活无着落的痛苦中用自杀解决了问题。 这个发生在成人中的故事看似与教育无关,但是我听到这个故事的最初的反映,就是把它与父母对孩子的爱的行为重叠在了一起。故事中妻子的爱使丈夫失 Readers, Let’s start by sharing a true story with all of us: a loving couple who lives in the countryside. Some strength at home is her husband rushing to do, and his wife never let her husband involved in cooking such things. After the sudden death of the wife, the husband committed suicide. Speaking of the reasons for the elderly committing suicide, people in the village say that because the elderly have never had a meal, the elderly can not take care of themselves after their wives die and his life is in a mess. Sometimes good people will help him to make meals, but in the end it is not a long-term solution. The elderly solved the problem with suicide without being able to relieve their wife’s misery and unattended life. This story of an adult appears to have nothing to do with education, but the first reflection I heard about the story was that it overlaps with parents’ love of their children. The wife’s love in her story made her husband lost