很多女人总以为“好男人”是天生的,她唯一能做的就是等待或邂逅,被动地等着遇到好男人,被动地用等待决定自己的命运。我认识很多高学历高收入的高龄单身女子,我常叫她们是“三高”的单身贵族。老实说,她们家世不错,长得也不算很差,但就是没有对象,又不想去参加婚友社。我和她们聊天时,常听她们说,其实她们年轻时都有对象,但总觉得当时的男友都不够好,而且不管她们怎么苦口婆心说破嘴,她们的男友们总是有些坏习惯 Many women always think “good man ” is born, the only thing she can do is wait or encounter, passively waiting to meet a good man, and passively wait to decide her own destiny. I know a lot of elder single women with high education and high income. I often call them single nobility. Honestly, they have a good family background and are not badly grown, but they are not targeted and do not want to go to a wedding club. When I talked with them, I often heard them saying that when they were young, they actually had the audience. However, they always felt that their boyfriends were not good enough. And no matter how well-intentioned they broke their mouths, their boyfriends always had bad habits