最近,网上有个段子,编辑朋友约我就此写点心理解读。为了方便讨论,这里先把段子略作删改记录如下:我有一个重大发现,就是当人们发生冲突的时候,其根本原因并不在于各自主要都说了些什么,而在于大家说完所想要说的话之后说的“多余的最后一句话”。我那天坐公共汽车去办事。一个年轻人,身旁有几个大包,一看就是刚从外地来的。他靠在售票员旁边,拿着地图在认真研究着,眼里不时露出茫然的神 Recently, there is a piece of online, editorial friends about me to write some psychological interpretation. For the sake of discussion, here is a brief record of the censorship: I have a major discovery that when people are in conflict, the root cause is not what they say, but what they want to say After saying “the last word of extra” . I went to work by bus that day. A young man, surrounded by a few big bags, a look just arrived from the field. He leaned against the conductor and studied the map with his eyes open, revealing a loss from time to time