我们往往会习惯被鼓励,“加油”“再努力一点”“坚持住”“你是最棒的”……我们也往往会用同样的话语去鼓励别人。没错,人生短促,我们应该尽量将事情做到最好,这样才会不留遗憾。可也正因为时间是有限的,我们是不是事事都应该奋进争先,站在那万人景仰的巅峰之上呢?中国有句老话,“人生不如意事十之八九”。能站在峰顶的总是凤毛麟角,我们有时会因为过于执著,而失去了应 We tend to get used to being encouraged, “cheer up ” “try harder ” “hold on ” “you’re the best ” ... We often use the same words to encourage others. Yes, short life, we should try our best to do things, so will not regret it. But also precisely because of the time is limited, we are not everything should strive for the first place, standing on top of the million people admiration above? There is an old saying in China, “life is as good as ten in ten.” Can stand on the peak is rare, we sometimes because of too much attachment, and lost