孩子们常在一起玩，细心的父母会看到两种表现：一种是总喜欢跟在别的孩子后面起哄，此类孩子典型的特征是“趋同”；另一种是少数孩子玩得别出心裁，透露出稚嫩的“另类”萌芽，这些孩子的突出之处是“求异”。如果孩子“趋同”味太浓，模仿别人，无丝毫主见和独立性，做父母 Children often play together, attentive parents will see two manifestations: one is always like to play with other children behind the coax, the typical characteristics of such children is “convergence”; the other is a few children play ingenuity , Revealing immature “alternative” germination, these children’s salient point is “difference.” If the child “convergence” smell too strong, imitate others, without any doubt and independence, parents