坐在我面前的这位老人,带着求助的目光,一个劲儿地问我:“我什么地方做得不对呢?如果孩子们还小,您说应该怎么管教呢?”他的孩子走上了歧途,他在忍受着难言的痛苦,后悔没有当好一个父亲。他的问题一直萦绕着我。从我作为一名家长的经历中,以及从其他人的说教中,我积累了一些什么样的见识呢?如果我再次成家的话,我怎么来改善我和孩子们的关系呢?经过反省以后,我记下了我认为最重要的几点:一、我要更爱我的妻子。在亲密无问的家庭生活中很容易把对方 The old man sitting in front of me, with the help of his gaze, kept asking me: “Where do I do something wrong? If the children are young, how do you say they should discipline?” "His children Going astray, he endured unspeakable pain, regret not a good father. His problem has been haunting me. What experience have I accumulated from my experiences as a parent and from other people’s preaching? How can I improve my relationship with the children if I am married again? After reflection, I wrote down the most important points I think: First, I want to love my wife more. In the intimate family life is easy to put each other