对一些习惯成自然的事，有时换个角度思考一下，会觉得这“很自然的事”其实是咄咄怪事——比如婚礼上一律突出新人双方单位的领导和一律请领导宣讲什么的。西方人的婚礼多在教堂里操办。这样，就成了上帝把一对男女紧密结合起来，从而给婚姻带来一种神圣意味。古代中国人结婚 For some things that are used to being natural, sometimes they think from a different point of view and think this “very natural thing” is actually a strange thing - for example, the wedding party always emphasizes the leadership of both units and invites the leaders to preach anything. Westerners’ weddings are mostly done in churches. In this way, it becomes God’s union of a man and a woman, giving the marriage a holy meaning. Ancient Chinese married