朋友结婚17年,和老公恩爱如初,极少吵架,是我们眼中典型的模范夫妻。我问她婚姻保鲜的秘诀,她笑了笑告诉我:把美好常记心间,心痛时拿来暖一暖,幸福和甜蜜感自然充盈心间,婚姻当然美满。她告诉我,每次想跟老公吵架的时候,她就想起一些事。一件事是,她和老公相恋时,他给她买了一部手机,那是她的第一部手机。事后她才知道,买手机花光了他的全部积蓄,那一个月,他的生活费都是找别人借的。另一件事是,那次她去他所在的城市看 Friends 17 years of marriage, and her husband love as ever, rarely quarrel, is a typical model of our eyes couple. I asked her the secrets of marriage preservation, she smiled and told me: to keep a good heart, heartache when used to warm the warmth, happiness and sweetness naturally filled the heart, of course, happy marriage. She told me every time she wanted to quarrel with her husband, she remembered something. One thing is that when she fell in love with her husband, he bought her a cell phone, her first cell phone. Later she did not know that to buy a cell phone spent all his savings, that month, his living expenses are looking for someone to borrow. Another thing is, that time she went to see his city