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在这个世界上有各种各样的人,有内向的有外向的,有善良的有狡诈的,有自私的有乐于助人的。究竟什么样的人最容易过上好日子呢?我曾经读过一本书,其中有一个细节,描写一个美国母亲在临终之前对未成年的儿子的最后嘱托,她把儿子叫到自己床前,对儿子说:“从今以后,无论是谁问你什么事情,你都要高高地昂昂头,直截了当地说出你心中的看法。”我来牵强附会一下,母亲总是希望自己的孩子能过上好日子,所以她对孩子的叮嘱一定是为着孩子将来的幸福着想。她愿意自己的孩子骄傲地活着,顶天立地,忠于自己心中的想法,做一个诚实的人,大概在美国,这样的人是最容易过上好日子的吧?我不太清楚,我没有在美国生活的经验。但是我有在国内生活的经验,以我现有的经验,我觉得我们是很重视“做人”的,我记得我刚工作的时候,一个老前辈曾经很善意地提醒我:“要做事先要做人。”当时我很惊讶,难道我做人做得不好吗?后来
There are all kinds of people in this world, introverted and extroverted, kind and cunning, selfish and helpful people. What kind of person is the easiest to live a better life? I once read a book that contains a detail of a U.S. mother’s final petition to a minor son before her death, and she calls her son to bed , Said to his son: “From now on, no matter who asked you something, you have to be soaring high and straightforward to say what you think.” I will lean on the attachment, the mother always want their children Can live a good life, so she told the children must be for the future happiness of children. She is willing to be proud of their children alive, indomitable, loyal to their own ideas, be an honest man, probably in the United States, such a person is the easiest to have a good life, right? I am not sure, I did not live in the United States experience of. However, I have experience of living in the Mainland and, with my existing experience, I think we attach great importance to “being a human being.” I remember when I was just working, an old man once reminded me very kindly: “To do something in advance A man. ”I was very surprised at that time, did I do poor man? Later