如果我们给自己的行为找一个理由,就会得到更多的理解和支持。令人吃惊的是,理由是否充分并不重要,只要有“因为”这个简单的词就够了。一块写着“我们在为您整修高速公路”的牌子其实完全是多余的——在高速公路上施工还能有什么原因?我们从车窗向外瞥一眼就会知道是什么情况,但是说出一个理由会让我们感到平静。相反如果没有这个“因”我们会觉得烦躁。 If we find a reason for our behavior, we will gain more understanding and support. Surprisingly, the reason is sufficient does not matter, as long as there is “because ” this simple word is enough. A sign saying, “We are refurbishing your highway,” is a truly superfluous brand. What else can we do on the highway? We know what the situation is from a glance out the window, but Saying a reason will make us feel calm. On the contrary, without this “because ” we will feel irritable.