家长往往把听话作为“好孩子”的标准,而不愿或没耐心听孩子说话。事实上,孩子也有丰富的情感,也有宣泄和表达的需要。家长要扮演好听众的角色,了解孩子的感受,使孩子得到心理上的满足,增强信任感和 Parents often regard obedience as the standard of “good boy” rather than being patient or listening to their children. In fact, children also have rich emotions, but also need to vent and express. Parents should play a good listener’s role, understand the child’s feelings, so that children get psychological satisfaction and enhance the sense of trust and