生活中,人与人之间难免有纠葛或冲突。遭遇纠纷时,被欺负的一方该如何对待?有的人针锋相对,以牙还牙。这种热处理,往往酿出两败俱伤、鱼死网破的苦果。对这种人,苏轼早就有过评价:“人情有所不能忍者,匹夫见辱,拔剑而起,挺身而斗,此不足为勇也。”可见,这并非良策。有的人则以 In life, people inevitably have disputes or conflicts. In the event of a dispute, what should one party be bullied? Some people are tit for tat. This heat treatment, often leads to lose-lose, fish died net broken bitter fruit. For such people, Su Shi has long been an evaluation: “human beings can not ninja, Pifu shame, pull the sword and come forward, come forward and fight, this is not brave enough.” This shows that this is not a good policy. Some people then