在多年与父母们的接触中,最让我苦恼的是那样一些父母:他们会对我说“你说的方法我照着做了,但是一点作用都没有”;他们会给我介绍一大堆专家们开出的治理孩子某个行为问题的药方,并总结说经过他们的试验,那些方法对自己的孩子统统不起作用。最后他们会一脸焦急、一脸恳切地问我有没有什么新的方法。 What has bothered me most for many years with my parents was the kind of parents who said to me: “I did what you said, but did not do anything,” they introduced me to The piles of experts’ prescriptions governing a child’s behavioral problems summed up that, after their experiments, those methods had no effect on their children at all. In the end they will be anxious look, look and earnestly asked me if there is any new way.