雪华同学：喜欢听别人的赞扬，这是每个人都具有的一种正常心理。为得到褒（bāo）奖而努力把事情做好，是一种积极的心态。而你的情况，是对别人的褒奖过于看重却又听不得批评意见，这就是虚荣心的一种反映了。虚荣心指的是过于重视表面的光彩。它不是一种健康的心理状态。那 Xuehua students: like to hear the praise of others, this is everyone has a normal psychology. It is a positive attitude to work hard to get things done in order to win the bāo award. And your situation is overvalued to others but can not hear criticism, which is a reflection of vanity. Vanity means too much emphasis on the surface of the luster. It is not a healthy state of mind. that