孩子是我们生命的延续。每一个做父母的都希望自己的孩子能有一个好的前途、好的未来。尤其目前城市中绝大部分是独生子女,家长对孩子的期望值就更高了。应该怎样培育自己的孩子?是呵护有加,要月亮不给星星?是先给孩子设计好一个模式,而后按部就班地运作?是只养不育,任其发展?还是“棍棒底下出孝子”?笔者对这些方法都不能认同。我以为,教育孩子,必须注重两种能力的培养:生存能力和学习能力。同时作为家长,在教育孩子的过程中要有清醒的头脑,还要勤于思考,善于学习和总结。 Children are a continuation of our lives. Every parent wants their children to have a good future and a good future. In particular, the vast majority of the cities currently have only one child, parents expect their children even higher. Should be how to nurture their own children? Care is added, the moon is not to give the stars? Is to give children a good model, and then step by step operation? Is only sterile, its development? I can not agree on these methods. I think that to educate children, we must pay attention to the cultivation of two abilities: viability and learning ability. At the same time as a parent, in the process of educating children have a clear mind, but also diligent in thinking, good at learning and summary.