倘若有人为你斟酒倒茶,你须将杯子挪近些,伸手做扶杯状,再说句“谢谢”之类的话。这是北京人的礼貌。北京人重礼貌。但近两年这一表示礼貌的方式在一些新潮人物那里有了变化。不再伸手扶杯,而是以指敲桌。始见这动作时,我甚觉别扭,曾向一见多识广的朋友请教,回答说:“这是广东人表示客气的方式。”再问何以用此方式以及规 If someone drinks pour tea for you, you have to move the cup a little closer, reach for your cup, say something like “thank you.” This is the politeness of Beijingers. Beijing people polite appearance. But the politeness of the past two years has changed for some trendy people. No longer reach for help, but to knock on the table. When I first saw this action, I was awkward and consulted an informed friend and replied: “This is the Cantonese way of saying politeness.” Ask why this way and rules