从前在燕国的寿陵,有一位少年,他总是认为:别人的东西都比我好,别人都比我强。因此,他总是向别人学这学那,到头来别人的东西没学好,却已经找不到自我了。有一天,他在饭馆中,听一个刚去过邯郸的人说邯郸人的走路姿势十分漂亮,女的走起路来格外婀娜多姿,男的走起来也更显出阳刚之气。少年就想:何不学学邯郸人的走路方式呢?于是,少年连忙向那个人讨教邯郸人的走路姿势。可那个人抱歉地对少年说:“我只是觉得他们走路的姿势好看而已,未尝学过,如果你要学,我倒是可以给你指点去邯郸的路。” Once in Yan’s Shou Ling, there was a teenager. He always thought that: Others are better than me. Others are stronger than me. Therefore, he always learns from others and learns about it. In the end, other people’s things are not learned, but they cannot find themselves. One day, in a restaurant, he listened to a person who had just been there and said that the walking posture of the monks was very beautiful. The female walked up to be particularly graceful and graceful, and the men’s walk also showed masculinity. The juvenile thought: Why not learn how to learn to walk away from the monks? Then, the young man quickly approached that person to teach people the walking posture. But that person said sorry to the boy: “I just think that they walked in good looks and didn’t try it. If you want to learn, I can give you directions to go.”