“我想把孩子教育好,就是缺少方法。请告诉我,用什么方法教育孩子最有效?”家长常常这样问我。教育方法很多,有指点、练习和榜样;有说服、表扬和批评……在教育过程中,这些方法往往是交织在一起互相配合运用的,并且具体方法的选用,要因事、因地,因人而异,“教无定法”嘛,因此很难说哪一种方法最有效。但是,我觉得“榜样”比较能打动孩子的心。因为孩子小,各种心理过程带有具体形象性,模仿力又强,孩子对直接感知的事情,亲眼目睹的行为比接受 “I want to educate children is the lack of methods, please tell me what is the most effective way to educate children?” Parents often ask me this. There are many ways of education, guidance, exercises and role models; there is persuasion, praise and criticism. In the education process, these methods are often intertwined and used in conjunction with each other, and the selection of specific methods, And different, “teach indefinite method,” Well, it is hard to say which method is the most effective. However, I think that “model” can impress children’s hearts more. Because of the small children, all kinds of psychological process with a specific image, strong imitation, the children of the direct perception of things, witnessed behavior than to accept