笔者在同高中学生的多年接触中，逐步了解到他们有许多心理障碍。在激烈的学习竞争中，有的自暴自弃，有的情绪大起大落；在同学关系的变动中，有的猜疑，有的嫉妒，有的惧怕，有的感到失落，有的则要“以牙还牙”；在家庭关系出现某种意外变化时，或者困惑，或音沮丧，或者惊 In my many years of contact with high school students, I gradually learned that they have many psychological barriers. In the fierce learning competition, some self-determination and self-abnegation, some emotions are ups and downs. In the changes in classmate relations, there are some suspicions, some guilty, some fear, some feel lost, and others must “trace”; in the family When something unexpected changes occur in the relationship, they are either confused or frustrated or frightened