老公失去了一个他最重要的亲人,我眼见他情绪上受到重大打击,却除了倾听安慰,不知道该做什么?问题本身反映了问者的焦虑,也反映了人们普遍存在的误区—认为哀伤是不好的,而这背后更深层的,是人们对哀伤、死亡的恐惧和无法面对。我经常说,如果一个人失去了重要 Her husband lost one of his most important relatives, I saw him emotionally hit, but in addition to listening to comfort, do not know what to do? The problem itself reflects the anxiety of the question, but also reflects the common misconceptions - that sad Is not good, but deeper behind this is people’s fear of sadness and death and can not face it. I often say that if one person loses importance