我们总会在校园中听到班主任老师对着学生们“发号施令”:你们必须做什么,必须怎么样;你们必须不做什么,如果我们悉心观察,会发现大多数教室中贴的班级规章制度也多是以“必须”为关键词,仿佛班级里的每件事情都必须用“必须”二字来做个界定;仿佛离开了“必须”一切都将停滞,一切都无法顺利进行;仿佛班级管理工作面对的不再是活生生的个体而是冷冰冰的群体。其实,我们也许不曾想到,也许不愿深思,其实可以用其他词语来代替必须——比 We always hear the teacher of the head teacher “commanding” to the students on the campus: what must be done and what must be done; you must not do anything. If we observe carefully, we will find class rules in most classrooms. The system is also based on “must” as its key word, as if everything in the class must be defined with “must”; as if leaving “must” everything will stagnate, everything All can’t go smoothly; it seems that class management is no longer a living entity but a cold group. Actually, we may not have thought that we may not want to think deeply. In fact, we can use other words instead of must--