在生活中,常常有这样一种现象:一些人看到自己身边的人(如邻里乡亲、单位同事、亲戚朋友或兄弟姊妹)在某些方面比自己强,便情不自禁地产生一种难受的感觉,甚至迁怒于他人,出现一些消极行为。比如,眼红人家住的房子比自己大,眼红人家开着高档小汽车,眼红人家赚的钱比自己的多,眼红人家的孩子比自己的孩子有出息……自己种的菜没有邻居的菜长得好,路过邻居菜地时,忍不住对那几株长得特好的菜踹上 In life, there is often such a phenomenon: some people feel unbearably unpleasant feeling that someone around them (such as neighborhood folks, business colleagues, relatives or friends or siblings) is stronger than themselves in some ways , Even angry at others, some negative behavior. For example, the jealous people live more than their own big house, jealous people driving high-end cars, jealous people make more money than their own, jealous children than their children have good news ... ... Well, passing neighbors vegetable, could not help those few strains of special dishes grow very good