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有爱,比形式上完整的家更重要。读者提问:我是一名独抚妈妈,希望孩子过节去看看爷爷奶奶。尽管孩子非常抗拒,但我还是希望孩子去。我很想让孩子有一个完整的爱,想让他更多地接触他的血脉亲人。而我又不想强迫孩子做他不喜欢的事。不知道怎样的选择更有利于孩子?心理咨询师阿诺回答——每一个成员都有爱,才是完整的家我也不知道哪种选择对孩子来说更有利,因为我不知道,孩子不喜欢爷爷奶奶的原因是什么。如果仅仅是因为陌生、不常见,那孩子不愿意去爷爷奶奶家,我觉得可以理解。
Having love is more important than having a formal home. Readers Question: I am a single caretaker mom, I hope the children to see the grandparents festival. Despite the child’s resistance, I still want my child to go. I really want to let the child have a complete love, want him to more contact with his blood relatives. And I do not want to force children to do what he does not like. Do not know what kind of choice is more conducive to children? Counselor Arnold answered - every member has love, is the complete home I do not know what kind of choice is more beneficial to children, because I do not know, children What does not like grandparents? If only because of strangers, not common, that children do not want to go to my grandparents home, I think it is understandable.