谈心活动是融洽官兵关系,开展经常性思想工作的一种好形式,也是我军的优良传统。但是,近年来在一些基层连队的谈心活动中,却存在着以权压人的现象。由于战士不能与干部平等交流思想,谈心也就难以收到预期的效果。因此,很有必要重提谈心要以心换心。首先,谈心者要有热心,是谈心成功的秘诀之一。热心就是要尊重人、理解人、关心人、爱护人。谈心中应十分尊重战士的人格和自 Talks are a good form of harmonious relations between officers and soldiers and carrying out regular ideological work as well as an excellent tradition of our military. However, in some people’s grass-roots company talk activities in recent years, there is a phenomenon of pressure on people. Since soldiers can not exchange ideas with cadres on an equal footing, it will be hard to receive the expected results if they talk about it. Therefore, it is necessary to re-talk to heart to heart. First of all, talking to those who want to be enthusiastic, is one of the secrets of heart success. Enthusiast is to respect people, understand people, care about people, love people. Talk about the heart should be very respect the personality and self-soldiers