常常听到无数家长和老师斥责道:你这孩子怎么这样呢?你不知道不能这样吗?你不准怎样怎样,你不能怎样怎样。却很少听到和风细雨般地问:孩子,请你告诉我你为什么要这样做呢?你内心真实的想法是什么呢?大量的事实已经证明,孩子身上存在的问题,追其源头往往就是其父母或者监护人的问题。在孩子的生命中,精神关爱的重要性远远大于物质给予。而从目前的形式来看,父母对孩子恰恰是物质上的给予比精神上多得多。 Often I hear countless parents and teachers scolding: How did you do this child? Do not you know that you can not do that? You are not allowed to do what you can not do. But seldom hear the wind and rain asked: child, please tell me why you want to do this? What is your heart true idea? A large number of facts have proved that the child’s problems, chasing its source is often its Parents or guardians of the problem. In the child’s life, the importance of spiritual care is far greater than the material given. From the current form of view, the parents of children is precisely the material to give much more than the spirit.