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最近一年多,我在婚姻家庭问题咨询工作中接触到婚姻“病案”98例,其中年龄在35岁以下的81例,占80％以上。夫妇冲突导致离婚或准备离婚的,以结婚不到5年者居多。有些青年朋友对周围人们的家庭危机和婚姻失败感到困惑不解或惶惑不安,从而担心自己“重蹈覆辙”。造成城市青年婚姻家庭变化的原因是多方面的。总的说,随着改革与开放,家庭模式和婚姻行为的变革也必然会到来,可以说家庭婚姻正处于一个“过渡”阶段,其中既有“滞后”的传统特征,又有“超前”的现代倾向,两者反差极大,使部分人大有进退维谷、无所适从之感。
In the past year or so, I have been exposed to 98 cases of marital “medical records” in the consultation on marriage and family issues. Among them, 81 cases under the age of 35 accounted for more than 80%. Couples conflict leading to divorce or divorce, to marry mostly less than 5 years. Some young friends are either puzzled or apprehensive about the family crisis and the failure of marriage among the people around them, thus worrying that they “repeat the same mistakes.” There are many reasons for the changes in urban youth marriage and family. Generally speaking, with the reform and opening up, changes in family patterns and marriage behaviors are bound to come. It can be said that family marriage is in a stage of “transition”, in which both traditional characteristics of “lagging” and “advanced” The modern tendency is extremely great between the two countries, so that some people have the feeling of being at a loss.