訾非,北京林业大学人文学院心理系主任,硕士生导师。致力于完美主义研究,著有《完美主义研究》等著作。在教育孩子的过程中,许多父母有追求完美教子的趋向。他们或是希望孩子处处优秀,给孩子提出了很高甚至是苛刻的要求,或是给孩子极为周到的关怀,希望孩子拥有完美的生活环境,无忧无虑地长大成人。可以 訾 non, Beijing Forestry University College of Humanities Department of Psychology, Master Instructor. Committed to perfectionism research, author of “perfectionism research” and other works. In the process of educating their children, many parents have the tendency to pursue their perfect godson. They either want the children to be excellent everywhere, give the children a high or even harsh request, or give the children extremely considerate care and hope that the children have a perfect living environment and carefreely grow up. can