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我们所主张的人格早期训练是以现代化人格特质为目标的。如果目标、方向很明确,这种人格早期训练就有可能为孩子一生的事业成就和良好人格奠定坚实的基础。什么是现代化的人格特质呢?据研究认为,现代化人格特质应包含如下13项要素。一、独立自主意识孩子在生活上能自理,在学习工作中能独立完成各项任务,碰到问题和困难能独立自主地作出决策并付诸实施。不轻意接受他人的暗示、意见而改变主意。一个人,如果不能独立自主地生活工作,那么,他就是一个不合格的社会成员。所以,应鼓励孩子在日常生活中独立自主地去完成一定的任务,家长不应该包办一切。包办不是爱,而是害。它会形成孩子严重的依赖性和寄生性。
The early training of personality we advocate is based on the modern personality traits. If the goal and direction are clear, such early training of personality may lay a solid foundation for the career achievement and good personality of the child in his lifetime. What is the modern personality traits? According to the study, the modern personality traits should include the following 13 elements. First, the independent self-awareness Children in their own life can take care of themselves, in the learning work can independently complete the tasks, problems and difficulties can independently make decisions and put into practice. Do not care to accept other people’s hints, opinions and change your mind. A person, if he can not live independently, then he is an unqualified member of society. Therefore, children should be encouraged to carry out certain tasks in their daily life independently and independently. Parents should not do everything. It is not love, but harm. It can cause serious child dependency and parasitism.