爱和规矩应该是一体的,很多父母往往是在爱的时候没了规矩,立规矩时没了爱。有的家长认为孩子还小,等他大了就会慢慢懂事了,其实,规矩必须从出生就开始立,越晚代价越大。作为家长,先要理解、明白孩子的需要,然后用恰当的奖励和惩罚的方法慢慢培养孩子好的习惯。“孩子不好好吃饭、睡觉该怎么办?”“孩子太黏人怎么办?”“孩子 Love and the rules should be one, many parents are often in love, no rules, established rules no love. Some parents think the child is still young, and when he is older, he or she will slowly become sensible. In fact, the rules must be established at birth and the later the cost is greater. As a parent, first understand, understand the needs of children, and then use the appropriate incentives and punishment slowly develop good habits of children. ”Children do not eat well, what should I do when I go to sleep? “ ”