跟男人分手和跟女人分手是有分别的。女人跟男人分手,最紧要留一些尊严给他。男人跟女人分手,要把五个字留给她来说。“我们分手吧。”——这五个字该由女孩来说。即使是你首先不爱她,你也该有风度的让她提出分手。男人惯常做的,就是对她愈来愈冷淡,让她自己觉得没趣,然后说:“我们分手吧。”女人会感激男人把这五个字留给她来说。她会永远记得是她首先不要你。这样的话,她也不会那么恨你。 There is a difference between breaking up with a woman and breaking up with a woman. A woman broke up with a man, the most urgent to leave some dignity to him. The man broke up with the woman, leave the five words for her. “Let’s break up.” - these five words should be for girls. Even if you do not love her first, you should let her break up. The man’s habit is to make her feel colder and indolent, then say, “Let’s break up.” The woman would be grateful to the man for leaving the five words to her. She will always remember that she did not want you first. In this case, she will not hate you so much.