望子成龙、望女成凤,是很多父母的梦想。当看到孩子学习不主动、做作业拖拉、上课注意力不集中时,做父母的常常会心急如焚。遇到这样的情况,父母应该怎么办呢?细心寻找原因有的家长反复督促孩子做作业,可结果一个小时过去了,孩子还在磨蹭拖拉,家长这时往往会很生气,对孩子发火,训斥孩子,这样做的效果可想而知。因此,发现孩子学习不积极时,家长一定要耐下心来,和孩子一起寻找原因:是身体不舒服,还是对学习内容不感兴趣,抑或是学习方法不得当?等等。总之,需要先分析孩子出现目前状况可能的原因,然后对症处理。肯定孩子的积极进取心任何一个孩子不管目前成绩怎样,从内心都是想进步 Succeed, hopeful woman into a phoenix, is the dream of many parents. When you see children learning to take the initiative to do homework drag, when the class is not focused, parents often anxious. In such cases, parents should be how to do it? Carefully looking for some parents repeatedly urged children to do homework, but the result of an hour passed, the child is still rubbing and dragging, parents tend to be very angry at this time, angry with their children, reprimanded Children, the effect of this can be imagined. Therefore, if you find that your child is not actively engaged in learning, parents must be patient and find out why: they are not feeling well or are not interested in what they are learning or are not allowed to learn. In short, you need to analyze the child’s current condition may be the reason, and then symptomatic treatment. Affirming the positive motivation of children No matter what the current performance of any child, from the heart want to improve