孩子是家长的宝贝,只要是为孩子好,家长愿意大量付出。但不恰当的教育犹如拔苗助长,不但不利于孩子健康成长,反而会适得其反,造成“爱”的伤害。笔者认为:要让孩子有充分的时间去自由思考,哪怕他想的是非常“可笑”的事;要培养孩子的自信心,多给孩子提供动手机会;关键是要让孩子成为他自己,而不是家长的影子。 Children are the parents of babies, as long as the child is good, parents are willing to pay a lot. However, improper education is like pulling a sprout and promoting growth. It is not only bad for the healthy growth of children, but will be counterproductive, resulting in injury of “love ”. I think: to allow children to have enough time to think freely, even if he thought is very “ridiculous ” thing; to cultivate children’s self-confidence, give children more hands-on opportunities; the key is to make the child be himself , Not the shadow of parents.