严呈:我是一名高二的学生,近来心里特别烦。每天父母精心烹制丰盛的晚餐,在我眼里不但是食欲全无,而且成为让我心情焦虑、精神疲惫的“四道菜”。因为当我拿起筷子时,父母的训教也就随之开始了。这第一道“菜”叫“关心备至”。开始吃饭时,母亲就唠叨不停,“儿子吃这个”、“儿子吃那个”、“这是补心的”、“那是补脑的”。让我连吃什么菜的自由都没有了。 Yan Cheng: I am a high school student and I have been particularly annoyed lately. Every day, my parents carefully prepared a hearty dinner. In my eyes, I had no appetite, and it was a four-course dish that made me feel anxious and mentally exhausted. Because when I picked up the chopsticks, my parents’ training began. This first “cabinet” is called “carefully prepared”. When I started eating, my mother would not stop, “the son eats this,” “the son eats it,” “this is the mind,” “it’s the brain.” The freedom for me to eat anything is gone.