EVERY time a man of dignified bearing sees me, he will say, “Hu Meili, I don’t like you.” “Why?” I’d ask him. “You don’t look like a woman,” he’d say. But, what does “like a woman” mean? What “should” a woman look like? You EVERY time a man of dignified bearing sees me, he will say, “Hu Meili, I do not like you. ” “Why? ” I’d ask him. “You do not look like a woman , ”he’d say. But, what does “ like a woman ”mean? What “ should ”a woman look like? You