我的儿子比较爱哭,我认为这是一种不好的气质,缺乏男子汉气概。孩子爱哭,原因是多方面的,主要的原因可以归结为如下几类:其一,娇气、软弱。由于父母或祖辈老人的溺爱,使孩子经受不起任何刺激,受不得一点委屈,缺乏独立应付环境变化的能力。其二,以哭做为要挟父母的手段。由于父母常常在孩子哭闹时,改变自己原有的决定,迁就孩子不合理的要求,使孩子取得了这方面的经验,并以此做为同父母“斗争”的武器。其三,胆小。孩子年龄小,经验少,常常会因无知而被某些客观现象的变化吓哭。我的儿子爱哭,上述原因兼而有之。我和妻子商量,要从情感态度、意志较量、说理和身教四个方面下点功夫,帮助儿子克服这个缺点。这里身教又是最重要的。在这方面,我的自然条 My son is crying more and I think it is a bad temperament, a lack of masculinity. Children cry, for many reasons, the main reason can be attributed to the following categories: First, fragile, weak. Due to the indulgence of parents or grandparents, children can not stand any stimulus and can not tolerate any grudges and lack the ability to deal with environmental changes independently. Second, crying as a means of compromising parents. Because parents often change their original decisions when they cry, they accommodate their children’s unreasonable demands and enable them to gain experience in this field as weapons for “fighting” with their parents. Third, timid. Children are young and have little experience and are often scared by the change of some objective phenomena due to ignorance. My son loves to cry, for both of these reasons. My wife and I should discuss ways to make efforts to overcome the shortcomings from the four aspects of emotional attitude, ambition, rationality and training. It is the most important thing to teach here. In this regard, my natural terms