随着年龄的增长,孩子不愿听成人摆布,要按照自己的意愿,用哪怕被成人认为是荒谬的方式去尝试。然而这些在成人眼里“不听话”的表现,却是儿童成长过程中正常的心理现象。处理得好,有利于孩子的心理健康,反之,则不利于孩子的成长。儿童心理学家认为:3岁末的孩子已有初步的自我意识,也有在 As you grow older, your child will not listen to the mercy of adults, and try to do what they want, in a way that adults regard as absurd. However, in the eyes of adults “disobedient ” performance, but it is the normal psychological phenomenon in the process of child growth. Handled well, is conducive to children’s mental health, on the contrary, it is not conducive to the child’s growth. Child psychologists believe that: 3-year-old children have initial self-awareness, there are