我们常常会遇到这样一种现象:当孩子大哭时,成人突然来一声吆喝:“快闭嘴!”以此来止住孩子的哭声。这种强行止哭的办法对于那些外向型性格的孩子来说影响还不太大,可是对于那些性格内向的孩子来说,后果就严重了。性格内向的孩子本来就胆小,一听到成人严厉的呵斥声,早已吓得不敢哭出声来,严重的还因此憋得嘴唇都发紫。我觉得碰到这种情形,成人还是让孩子哭出来好。这是因为:从心理上讲,这种强行止哭的办法是属于压力即惩罚教育。压力和惩罚可能暂时 We often encounter such a phenomenon: when the child cried, adults cry suddenly: “Shut up!” In order to stop the child’s crying. This method of forcibly stopping crying does not have much impact on the children of extrovert characters, but for those introverted children, the consequences are serious. Introverted children have been timid, heard the severe sobs of adults, have long been scared to cry out loud, so Biede lips are even more purple. I think in this case, adults or children to cry out well. This is because: Psychologically speaking, this way of forcibly crying belongs to the pressure that punishment education. Stress and punishment may be temporary